“The only way to avoid criticism is to do nothing, say nothing, and be nothing.” — Aristotle

We all crave acceptance. It’s part of our human nature to want to be liked, appreciated, and understood. But if you’re going to pursue your dreams and live out your purpose, you will need the courage to be disliked. It may sound harsh, but it’s true: living a purpose-driven life often means making decisions that won’t please everyone.

In fact, the Bible reminds us in Galatians 1:10 (NIV):

“Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.”

Following your God-given purpose will require you to rise above the need for universal approval. The truth is, some people will misunderstand you, criticize you, or even distance themselves from you. But their opinions should never dictate your destiny.

Key Insights: Why You Need the Courage to Be Disliked

1. Not Everyone Will Understand Your Calling—And That’s Okay

God’s purpose for your life is unique to you. What God spoke to you may not make sense to someone else. Just like Noah, who built an ark before a single drop of rain fell, sometimes your obedience will look strange to others.

• Hebrews 11:7 (NLT): “It was by faith that Noah built a large boat to save his family from the flood. He obeyed God, who warned him about things that had never happened before.”

The takeaway? You don’t need everyone to “get it.” You need faith to keep building, even when they question your vision.

2. Your Purpose Isn’t About Popularity—It’s About Impact

Living for God’s purpose is rarely glamorous. In fact, it’s often challenging. Jesus Himself experienced rejection from His hometown:

• Mark 6:4 (NIV): “A prophet is not without honor except in his own town, among his relatives and in his own home.”

Jesus didn’t come to win a popularity contest—He came to fulfill a mission. If you’re too focused on being liked, you might water down your gifts, your values, or your dreams. Don’t exchange your purpose for popularity.

3. Criticism Is a Sign You’re Moving Forward

If you’re experiencing resistance or criticism, it’s often a sign that you’re stepping out in faith. People criticize what they don’t understand or what makes them uncomfortable. But as the saying goes: “Ships are safe in the harbor, but that’s not what ships are made for.”

When you step out of your comfort zone, some people may stay behind. That’s okay—your purpose was never tied to their approval.

Action Steps: How to Strengthen Your Courage

1. Align Your Priorities with God’s Voice

• Reflect on what God has placed on your heart. What dreams or goals have you been hesitant to pursue because of fear of criticism?

• Prayer Focus: Ask God for clarity and courage to follow His direction rather than people’s opinions.

• Key Verse: “Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” — Matthew 6:33

2. Let Go of People-Pleasing

• Journal about an area of your life where you’re seeking validation from others. Is it your career, appearance, or relationships?

• Challenge yourself to make a decision this week that prioritizes purpose over popularity.

3. Surround Yourself with Purpose-Focused People

• Join a community or mentorship group that encourages faith and boldness.

• Remember, God often sends the right people into your life to uplift you as you step out.

Reflection Questions:

1. What dream or calling have I been delaying out of fear of disapproval?

2. What would my life look like if I stopped trying to be liked and started living with boldness?

3. Who can I reach out to for encouragement as I pursue my purpose?

Final Encouragement:

Jesus didn’t come to be liked—He came to transform lives. The same applies to you. When you pursue your purpose, you won’t always be understood, but you will be impactful. Your destiny isn’t defined by your critics—it’s defined by your Creator.

God is with you, cheering you on and strengthening you every step of the way. So, the question remains: Do you have the courage to be disliked? If you do, you’re already one step closer to fulfilling your purpose.

Prayer:

“Lord, help me to follow Your purpose with boldness and humility. Give me the courage to rise above fear of rejection and focus on pleasing You above all else. Strengthen me to walk in obedience, even when it means being misunderstood. Thank You for reminding me that Your approval is all I need. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”